It is to manys misconception that because I don’t talk of uncomfortable or unfortunate circumstances that I don’t feel pain or I don’t know pain. Quite the opposite. It is because I know it that I know this: sitting in it keeps you staying in it. Many love to think I’ll change when IT (whatever it may be) changes. Not gonna happen. It may not change and so will you not change and actually craft more of the same; what happens is you subsequently shape the same circumstance. It may br a new way of approaching things and by practicing to not remain in a position, it will ultimately help this new practice become a permanent change. We can feel pain, suffering is a choice.